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I believe that ultimately..happiness is the key. A day is only wasted when one is not happy. I aim to be happy everyday no matter what happens.

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Contentment

Why is contentment so hard for me? Why am I always focusing on the negative? I think my perfectionistic ideas are killing me. My perfectionism is the culprit for all my unhappiness. In a lot of ays, I am very blessed. But I hardly focus on all these blessings that I have. Instead I put all my attention on the negative things. As you know, what you focus on expands. And I am always having hugh problems whicj are not probelms when viewed in a different perspective.

I should focus on the good qualities of people and not expect them to be perfect. Perfection is only an illusion. No one can be perfect in this world. I should learn to live and let live. I shouldnt sweat over the small, trivial stuff. I have to learn to let others be human sometimes. Humans are not perfect. Humans make mistakes. I have to learn to focus on the right things, the positive stuff and less on the negative.

Life is not as stressful as I think it is. If only I can let go of my own perfectionism, I will be a happier person, I will feel better and I will be less
stressed. I have to live life. Time is just a concept and an illusion. All we have is NOW. I have to relax and give in to the power of NOW. Life is beautiful if you think it is beautiful. What you think is what you get. The mind is really very powerful. Never underestimate the power of my mind. If I wanna feel free, I have to first BELIEVE that I am free. First, you believe. The rest will follow. Think and belive you have peace and you will have it. LIfe is such. Make full use of the power of the mind. Think and belive good thoughts.

I hsve been trapped and stressed by the neverending beating of the clock every single day. I have to learn to just BE. Time is just a mere concept. Don't be controlled by it. Rather, learn to live in the NOW. Time is just a guide. Follow my heart. Listen to how I feel. Learn to belive in myself.

Like I read somewhere...............See the light in people. Don't overly focus on their faults. Not as if the faults are so great.

Banish the need for perfection and I will feel loads better. Focus on feeling good.
Do whatever I can to feel good. I need this to be healed.

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