About Me

I believe that ultimately..happiness is the key. A day is only wasted when one is not happy. I aim to be happy everyday no matter what happens.

Monday, March 26, 2007

Letting Go.......

How to let go? Of old die hard habits..of normal routine arrangements....
I am the type of person who is hesitant to change. I dun like change.

But I have to let go. Cos things can never remain the same forever. Moreover, I really dun have total control over everything even though how much I try to gain control of things. That is just wishful thinking. I am only human.....I cannot control everything no matter how hard I try. That is utterly impossible.

So I have to learn to let go...let go of the thought that I can control every aspect of my life. That I can control whath other people think or feel. That I can control them to want what I want ..etc.

I have to let go....only then will I find peace....within myself and also perhaps..that is the best gift I can give to them......to let them have some breathing space......and think for themselves.

I have to let go of the control and see where this leads us......

Definitely more innerpeace for me.....

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