The biggest challenge in life is to deal with the boredom of everyday life, the monotony of the nitty gritties of everyday life and to make soemthing extraordinary out of the ordinary. Be amazed by the how extraordinary ordinary things really are.
To inspire rather than nag or scold the kids. To not give them the lesson of being insatisiable by giving them too many stuff and to teach them to just be rather than the need to have all the time. To teach empathy and sympathy to kids. Inspire and help them be in tune with their own inner voice to do the right things for themselves rather than telling them what to do all the time. Inspire rather than scold or manipulate themm to be what I want them to be. Dun ask them what they wanna do when they grow up. Rather ask them what they wanna be. DO they wanna be a good person? Teach them the right values. Give them the gift of myself rather than the material gifts. teach them that they do not NEED the material things and a lot of stuff to be happy. They can be happy just as they are not when they have things.
The left hand of unconditional love and the right hand of boudaries, rules and discipline. This is what parenting is. Say No cos we love them and want them to be a better person. Giving in to all their demands just to avoid conflicts will not make them a better human being. This will rob them of their ability to feel and empthasie which is so important.
Interact with your kids. Give them positive attention and inspire them. Scolding and nagging are the wrong ways to motivate people. Very negative.
There is a choice everyday. You choose postive or negative.. You choose to be happy or not despite everything. Happiness is definitely a choice. You choose to be self destructive or not. Everything is a choice. CHOOSE WISELY.
Give my kid the positives , not drag him down with my own personal negatives. Set a good example....Be a good example.....Be a good influence in his life rather than be the neagative influence. It is time to step up on the plate and be a responsible parent. Not a perfect parent cos nobody is perfect but to be a good and responsible one.
Not to hold on to everything for dear life but leanr to let go and go with the flow.
Not to struggle to control everything but learn to give up control cos no one can control everything in his/her life. Impossible so dun try.
Let go.......dun control....be contented......choose to be happy despite and relaxxxxxx..... and dun forget to smile and laugh.........
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